Relaxed Hair Is NOT Black People Trying to Look White — The Cultural Truth They Never Taught Us

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Relaxed Hair Is NOT Black People Trying to Look White — Here’s Why

What’s up my friends,
It’s Darron from Darren’s Beauty Shop.

Today I want to talk about something that still triggers people, still causes debates, and still gets misunderstood:

Relaxed hair is NOT Black people trying to look white.

And before you react, hear me out.

I actually made a video and article on this topic three or four years ago. You can even check the timestamps on YouTube. I took it down back then—not because it wasn’t true, but because I didn’t feel like going back and forth with people who weren’t ready to hear it.

Fast forward to now.

With TikTok, independent researchers, historians, and truth-seekers sharing information daily, people’s level of awareness has shifted. Folks are asking questions. They’re open. They’re thinking for themselves.

So now felt like the right time to bring this conversation back.

Some of you will love this.
Some of you won’t. But truth doesn’t need permission.

Where the Lie Started

For decades, we’ve been taught—directly and indirectly—that when Black people straighten or relax their hair, it’s because we’re trying to look like Europeans.

That idea has been repeated so often that many people just accept it as fact.

But what if I told you that narrative is historically incomplete?

What if I told you that long before European colonization, hair straightening was already a cultural practice among Indigenous people of color in the Americas?

And yes—this part makes some folks uncomfortable—but history isn’t here to make us comfortable.

A Deeper Look at Indigenous Roots

There are countless historical records, books, and documented accounts showing that the original Indigenous people of this land were not all light-skinned, straight-haired caricatures pushed by Hollywood.

Many were dark-skinned, copper-colored, brown-skinned people with a wide range of hair textures—including straight, wavy, and kinky.

The image of the “Native American” most people recognize today was heavily revised over time.

If you really want to go down the rabbit hole, research the term “$5 Indians.” Dig deep. Read beyond surface-level sources. The more you research, the clearer it becomes that a lot of history has been rewritten or erased.

And once you start digging, trust me—the deeper you go, the Blacker it gets.

Hair Straightening Was a Cultural Practice

Straightening or smoothing the hair was not something copied from Europeans.

It was a cultural and ceremonial practice that existed long before colonization—passed down through generations for spiritual, religious, and social reasons.

So how could we be trying to look like someone we hadn’t even encountered yet?

That logic alone should make people pause.


The True Origin of the Relaxer

What we now call a relaxer traces back to the Conk, short for Congolene—a hair-straightening gel popular among Black men from the 1920s through the 1960s.

That gel was traditionally made using eggs, potatoes, and lye.

But here’s the key part most people never learn:

Our ancestors already understood how to create and use lye long before colonization.


Ancient Science They Don’t Talk About

Indigenous people practiced a process called nixtamalization, used to treat maize (corn) to make foods like hominy and grits—yes, the same grits your grandparents ate.

By soaking corn in lime or wood-ash lye water, they discovered it softened and removed tough outer hulls.

That same lye water was also used to:

  • Soften tree bark fibers
  • Remove sap
  • Create materials for ropes, mats, baskets, bags, belts, shoes, and tools

This wasn’t primitive behavior—this was advanced chemistry and material science.

Eventually, this knowledge extended to hair and grooming practices, including creating gels for styling and straightening hair for cultural and ceremonial purposes.


What Colonization Destroyed

Once colonizers invaded, laws were created that outlawed Indigenous religious and cultural practices.

Over time—through slavery, displacement, Jim Crow laws, and forced assimilation—much of this knowledge was lost, fragmented, or stripped of its origin.

The practice remained.
The understanding disappeared.


Enter Garrett Morgan

In 1910, Garrett Morgan, also known as Big Chief Mason, patented the first commercial hair-straightening product.

Here’s something many people don’t know:

Garrett Morgan openly claimed full-blooded Indigenous heritage from Walpole Island.

He didn’t invent the practice—he formalized and patented knowledge that already existed.

And let’s not forget, this same man also gave us:

  • The three-position traffic light
  • The smoke hood that protected firefighters
  • Multiple innovations that helped modernize America

Yet somehow, his role in hair history gets stripped of cultural context.


Media, Hollywood & the Spread of the Style

As film and mass media grew in the early 1900s, relaxed and straightened hairstyles became more visible.

Hollywood itself was shaped by pioneers like Oscar Micheaux, a Black filmmaker whose work laid the groundwork for the industry—including what we now know as the Oscars.

Through movies, music, and barbershops, the style spread—often passed down from fathers to sons, barbers to clients—while the original cultural knowledge faded into the background.


So Let’s Be Clear

Relaxing your hair is not self-hate.
It is not cultural betrayal.
And it is not about wanting to be white.

It is a grooming and styling practice rooted in ancient cultural knowledge, long before European contact.

You don’t have to wear your hair one way to prove your Blackness.

The real power is knowing the truth and making informed choices—whether you wear your hair natural, relaxed, locked, braided, or shaved.


This is Darron from Darren’s Beauty Shop
👉🏾 darronsbeautyshop.com

Stay beautiful, stay informed, and stay thinking for yourself.

Peace.

































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